UGGGGHHHH. I'm livid right now. His one day off he just destroys the really cute sitting area I had made! I spent all day working on it yesterday trying to get ready for summer. I would like to have people over and the kids sit outside. It would be nice to look out and see a NICE yard. Now it's back to it's crappiness view that we had before yesterday. Like are you kidding me?! He's like "What'd I do?!?!!?" and he spent less than 10 minutes moving the crap back into view of the window so everyone can see the awful marble table he also ruined. We bought the marble table 2 years ago slightly chipped on the corners. Now the legs are peeling their original stained color so the table is completely icky. I was going to Craigslist it next week and have it on curb-alert. I probably still will but he just moved it even farther from the side door in the yard so I got to work ten times harder. Last week he had put this disgusting residue paste onto the chipped marble table and all over my drywalls that had holes. It dried looking like SHIT. Even the kids are like... "what is on the wall dad, it looks like poop!!!?!" It's embarrassing how an engineer can destroy things. He didn't even smooth it down so I could just paint over it. It's all clumped together and dried hard as a rock (which was the point) ....
Now I got empty bins, someone else's lawn mower, and more crap outside. I just don't get men. I had cleaned out his garage too and guess what? That looks like shit again. Everything is everywhere, he has no idea how to put anything back into its spot. He just leaves everything a mess. And the weird thing is he wasn't like this before we got married. He cleaned up things and helped out. Now it's just TV and video games. It is driving me nuts and I just want to cry.
I feel like he keeps ruining all my hard work. I know I don't bring home the money but I keep the house in super-nice condition. And he's home for a weekend or a holiday and the house just gets disorderly. He doesn't even do laundry. He mowes the small patch of grass that we have... that's it. And leaves me the rest to clean up. I'm just sick of it. I can't talk to him about it because I get so upset and angry at him. When we did our front lawn last weekend, he had trimmed a tree but left me ALL the branches to clean up. He would not work on the project with me when we got home. He just said, "Yah! You rock!" and while that's a great compliment, it really sucks cause I waste time cleaning up his messes.
Does anyone else have these husband problems?!?! I just don't get it. Why can't he be CLEAN?! He had an awesome house before me back in Florida and yes, we are renters here in AZ but still. Freakin' aye! Keep it darn clean! And don't move my projects... please!
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